love:my opinion,my point of view..my believes..

love..when talking about love, i believes that all of us will get interested to hear, to give their opinions and to feel love itself. and love is such a feeling that a gift from dear lord to all human. but how people nowadays describe love and how they applied it in daily life??love will makes one blinds,will changes ones attitude and sometimes love will killing.we often hear that teenagers run from their home to follow their lover and another social crime related with love. my opinions, this is clearly a wrong ways of loving and should be avoided by each people.

but there is something that we didn't realize when we are in love. a mistake that we never realized it. and we only think about that after we lose someone we love because of a quarrel or whatsoever. the biggest mistake that i mean is our attitude towards our people around us. when we are in love, we automatically ignored people around us, although we never think that we will do such thing, it seem like to come naturally. people in love try to take careof his spouse feeling even sometimes they might hurt their own friends feelings. what a such horrible attitude appears in their life. what make it worse it, they not feel guilty as long as they able to make their spouse happy.

i strongly believes that friends and lover are stand in the same level in everyone life. both people will try their best to help us,to love us as mush as they can.but what makes me little sad is friends are always been ignored for the sake of loves. why certain lovers can't admit the relationship between friends is also some kind of love and should be appreciate??

i am giving my opinion based on my experienced as a lover and also as friend who feel  isolated by my friends who are in loves.when i am in loves, i got a quarrel with my own bestfriends just to make my spouse happy with me.and i am willing to accept any punishment from others just to protect her. but once she dump me, i start to realized that i had done  lot of wrong things and i start to regret it. although  i really love her, but what wrong doing is still wrong. and my experienced as a friends, i feel really sad when my own friends ignored my advices just for his lover. and same goes to me,he also dumped by that girl. those are example of serious mistake that we had done because we are not showing love in a correct ways.

love is such a great feeling..born from people heart and bring hapiness to our life. i do believes in loves and i do looking for true love in my life. but we should not spoil this pure feelings by hurting another peeple around us.try to love others as much as we can and as a reward, we will be loved by others too.thats the true hapiness that we looking for actually...for words which might hurts..i ask for an apology...thank you..